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Good wedding quotes are short, sourced and easy to say aloud. The table below lists eight public-domain lines, each with its author, work and link, plus twelve original lines we wrote and label as ours. Copy any card, keep it to one quote per speech and say the author out loud.
Many quote lists online give no source at all. We left those out. If we cannot link the text, it is not here.
Quote table: public-domain lines with their sources
Table: the eight public-domain quotes on this page, with word count and spoken time (our estimate, assumptions below)
| Quote starts | Author and work | Tone | Words | Seconds aloud | Source |
|---|---|---|---|---|---|
| Let me not to the marriage of true minds | William Shakespeare, Sonnet 116 | Steady | 28 | 13 | Project Gutenberg |
| How do I love thee? Let me count the ways | Elizabeth Barrett Browning, Sonnet 43 | Tender | 37 | 17 | Project Gutenberg |
| My bounty is as boundless as the sea | William Shakespeare, Romeo and Juliet | Generous | 26 | 12 | Project Gutenberg |
| Two are better than one | Ecclesiastes 4:9, King James Version | Practical | 14 | 7 | Bible Gateway |
| And if one prevail against him | Ecclesiastes 4:12, King James Version | Steady | 18 | 8 | Bible Gateway |
| Intreat me not to leave thee | Ruth 1:16, King James Version | Devoted | 38 | 18 | Bible Gateway |
| Many waters cannot quench love | Song of Solomon 8:7, King James Version | Strong | 11 | 5 | Bible Gateway |
| Beareth all things, believeth all things | 1 Corinthians 13:7-8, King James Version | Enduring | 15 | 7 | Bible Gateway |
Assumptions: word counts are for the quote text only, and seconds use 130 words per minute, our assumed calm pace, rounded to whole seconds. Real rooms add a pause for the glass, so allow a few more seconds.
Pick by length
Table: how our twenty quotes split by length (our estimate, assumptions below)
| Use it for | Length | How many here | Time aloud |
|---|---|---|---|
| A card or sign | 12 words or fewer | 4 | up to 6 seconds |
| A line inside a toast | 13 to 25 words | 12 | 6 to 12 seconds |
| A reading or a pause in a speech | 26 words or more | 4 | 12 to 18 seconds |
Assumptions: the same 130 words per minute as above, applied to the text of each quote without the attribution line. The counts include the public-domain lines and our original ones together.
Type the length of your own draft into the box above to see how much room a quote leaves you. Published advice keeps a whole speech under five minutes, and one source puts a reception toast at a minute or two. A quote that fills a tenth of that time is already doing a lot.
Public-domain quotes to copy
Each card below carries the author and work as its last line, so Copy puts the source on your clipboard with the words. Tap Copy under any card.
Steady and certain
Let me not to the marriage of true minds
Admit impediments. Love is not love
Which alters when it alteration finds,
Or bends with the remover to remove:William Shakespeare, Sonnet 116
And if one prevail against him, two shall withstand him; and a threefold cord is not quickly broken.
Ecclesiastes 4:12, King James Version
Many waters cannot quench love, neither can the floods drown it.
Song of Solomon 8:7, King James Version
Sonnet 116 is about love that stays put when things change, which makes it a natural close for a toast to a couple who have already been through something. The cord line fits a speech about two families joining. The waters line is eleven words, so it also suits a card.
Tender and devoted
How do I love thee? Let me count the ways.
I love thee to the depth and breadth and height
My soul can reach, when feeling out of sight
For the ends of Being and ideal Grace.Elizabeth Barrett Browning, Sonnets from the Portuguese, Sonnet 43
Intreat me not to leave thee, or to return from following after thee: for whither thou goest, I will go; and where thou lodgest, I will lodge: thy people shall be my people, and thy God my God.
Ruth 1:16, King James Version
The Browning lines suit a close friend who knows the couple well enough to say “I love thee” in a room of people. The Ruth passage is a promise of loyalty to a person and a family, which suits a parent welcoming a new in-law. We cut it at a natural pause. The full passage is on the linked page.
Generous and practical
My bounty is as boundless as the sea,
My love as deep; the more I give to thee,
The more I have, for both are infinite.William Shakespeare, Romeo and Juliet, Act 2, Scene 2
Two are better than one; because they have a good reward for their labour.
Ecclesiastes 4:9, King James Version
Beareth all things, believeth all things, hopeth all things, endureth all things. Charity never faileth.
1 Corinthians 13:7-8, King James Version
The King James text says “charity” where modern Bibles say “love”. If you read it aloud, say the word in the text and add one line of your own, or your guests may wonder. For the full ceremony-reading side of these passages, see the Bible verses used in vows and the page of readings for the ceremony.
Original lines, labeled as ours
We wrote these twelve. They are not quotes from anyone, and you do not have to credit them. Change names, swap words and make them yours.
For a toast
To the two of you: may the good days be loud and the hard days be shared.
Our line, free to use
May your home be loud with friends, quiet when you need it, and always the first place you want to be.
Our line, free to use
To the couple who make the room feel warmer: may you never lose the habit of choosing each other.
Our line, free to use
Please raise a glass to [Name] and [Name]. Long may they argue about directions and agree about everything else.
Our line, free to use
For a card
You found each other. The rest is just practice.
Our line, free to use
Here is to the two of you, and to every ordinary Tuesday you will make better.
Our line, free to use
Some people build a life. You two are building a place where the rest of us always feel invited.
Our line, free to use
Love is the thing you keep noticing about someone after you have stopped being surprised.
Our line, free to use
With a smile
Marriage is deciding, over and over, who gets to be wrong about the thermostat. We wish you many happy compromises.
Our line, free to use
They say opposites attract. We say you two just got very lucky with the details.
Our line, free to use
For a sign or guest book
Sit anywhere you like. Everyone here is on the couple’s side.
Our line, free to use
Leave a wish, a joke or advice. Tonight, all three count.
Our line, free to use
How a quote fits inside a toast
A quote is a bridge, not the speech. Here is a worked example of where it sits and how much room it takes.
Example: a 90-second toast with one quote. At 130 words per minute, our assumption, 90 seconds is about 195 words.
- Your own opening and a one-line story: 85 words
- A one-sentence lead-in to the quote: 12 words
- Sonnet 116 lines: 28 words
- Your wish for the couple and the toast: 70 words
The lead-in plus the quote is 40 words, about 18 seconds, or roughly one fifth of the toast. That is the ceiling. If the quote starts to feel like the main course, cut it back to the first two lines.
The lead-in matters more than people expect. Do not announce “here is a famous quote.” Say what the line means to you, then read it. For example, “When I think about [Name] and [Name], I think of how steady they are. Shakespeare wrote it better.” Then the lines.
Mistakes with quotes, and what to do instead
- Using a quote nobody can place. If you cannot explain why it fits in a sentence, drop it and write that sentence instead.
- Attributing a line you cannot source. Many lines online are credited to a famous name with no proof. Use ones you can link, or write your own and say nothing about authorship.
- Reading the whole poem. Two to four lines carry the idea. The rest costs you the room.
- Stacking three quotes. The second one weakens the first. Pick the best and move on.
- Skipping the author’s name. One spoken sentence is enough: author, then work.
- Putting the quote first with no context. A line without a reason sounds like filler. Say one real thing, then read it.
If the speech still needs its overall shape, the skeleton with a time budget shows where a quote sits among the other parts. For a short version, see a short toast.
Where each quote works best
| Where | Good picks | Why |
|---|---|---|
| Spoken toast | Sonnet 116, our toast lines | Rhythm helps when you say it aloud |
| Place card or sign | Song of Solomon 8:7, “You found each other” | Short enough for large type |
| Guest book front page | “Leave a wish, a joke or advice” | Tells guests what to do |
| Card to the couple | Our card lines, Ecclesiastes 4:9 | Fits a handwritten note |
| Reading in the ceremony | Ruth 1:16, 1 Corinthians 13 | Longer, formal tone |
For a card that needs wishes rather than a quote, the wedding wishes page has lines written to be signed. If you are writing as the groom’s closest friend, the best man speech walks through the structure. You can also see full worked speeches by role for how a quote sits in a finished draft.
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Questions people ask
What are good quotes for a wedding speech?
Pick a line that says what you already feel, then tie it to the couple in one sentence. Old verse such as Sonnet 116 or Ecclesiastes works well because the wording is dignified and short. If nothing fits, use one of our original lines. A quote should support your story, not replace it.
How do I credit a quote in a speech?
Say the author and the work out loud before or after the line, such as "Shakespeare wrote, in Sonnet 116". You do not need dates or footnotes. For printed cards and signs, put the author and work in small type under the line. If the line is your own, say nothing and let it be yours.
What are short wedding quotes for a card?
Aim for fewer than 12 words so the line fits on a card or sign without shrinking the type. From the table, Song of Solomon 8:7 and our original lines "You found each other. The rest is just practice." both qualify. Leave room for your own signature and a handwritten note beneath.
Are these quotes free to use?
The verses are old texts that Project Gutenberg and Bible Gateway label as public domain or list as free ebooks, so you can copy them into a speech, card or sign. The lines marked as ours are free to use too. We are not lawyers, and modern translations or living authors are different, so check those first.
How many quotes should a wedding speech have?
One is plenty, and two is the limit. A speech is mostly your voice and your story, and a borrowed line only works when it lands once. Put it near the end as a bridge into the toast, or use it as the first sentence if you want to set the tone. Cut any quote you cannot tie to the couple.
Sources
- www.gutenberg.org/ebooks/1041 (opens in a new tab) : Text of Shakespeare's Sonnet 116, from the Project Gutenberg edition of Shakespeare's Sonnets.
- www.gutenberg.org/ebooks/1513 (opens in a new tab) : Text of Juliet's lines in Act 2, Scene 2 of Romeo and Juliet, from Project Gutenberg.
- www.gutenberg.org/ebooks/2002 (opens in a new tab) : Text of the opening lines of Sonnet 43 in Elizabeth Barrett Browning's Sonnets from the Portuguese, from Project Gutenberg.
- www.biblegateway.com/passage/?search=Ruth+1%3A16-17&version=KJV (opens in a new tab) : King James Version text of Ruth 1:16-17, labeled Public Domain by Bible Gateway.
- www.biblegateway.com/passage/?search=Ecclesiastes+4%3A9-12&version=KJV (opens in a new tab) : King James Version text of Ecclesiastes 4:9-12, labeled Public Domain by Bible Gateway.
- www.biblegateway.com/passage/?search=1+Corinthians+13%3A4-8&version=KJV (opens in a new tab) : King James Version text of 1 Corinthians 13:4-8, labeled Public Domain by Bible Gateway.
- www.biblegateway.com/passage/?search=Song+of+Solomon+8%3A6-7&version=KJV (opens in a new tab) : King James Version text of Song of Solomon 8:6-7, labeled Public Domain by Bible Gateway.
- weddingwire.com/wedding-ideas/who-gives-a-speech-at-a-wedding (opens in a new tab) : Advice to keep any wedding speech under five minutes.
- www.insideweddings.com/news/expert-advice/the-must-know-rules-for-making-a-wedding-toast/1622 (opens in a new tab) : Advice that a reception toast runs a minute or two at most.
Updated by bigdaydesk editorial